As much as ladies tend to think that they rule the world and can do it all, we know that men have their class. The class in which the position of a man and a woman is not being disputed or fought for. A man will always be a man and a woman a woman. Our natural differences are what we thrive on, and we have lived that way for many years. I mentioned in my recent article; A Woman’s True Beauty, how important it is for the woman to recognize how beautiful she already is, without any major addition. Today’s we discuss about the men!
I remember growing up to the fact that we had more women than men alive in the world. In fact, word on the street was that the ratio of women to men was 2:1. Meaning that we had women double the number of men on earth. But right now, those stats are not right. According to Wikipedia, the population of men is just slightly over that of women at birth. But it’s then understandable to see why we tend to believe that we have a lot of female than male folks in the world today. There is such a huge craze about a woman’s beauty in our day, that the men get too little attention about how they look as compared to how women look. There is no such noise about a man’s makeup, or how some particular things make him sexy as compared to a woman. A man is who he is; a man!
The major reason that men are so being overlooked, and the women seem more important is because of this simple fact:
A man is never ugly!
Haha.. Ladies.. You just thought about how many ugly guys you’ve seen in your life eh. The truth is those ones were simply not your type, most of those guys didn’t get half a second of your gaze. Well, well, I must say that those are just your preferences, all you can do is not see yourselves with them. Do you know how many other ladies are dying to see themselves with them? Think about it, men are the treasure! Getting a hang of it yet? Ever walked past a very beautiful woman, and when you see her husband or boyfriend you ask “What in heaven’s name are they doing together?” Yep, that has happened to me too as well. You just can’t seem to understand how beautiful ladies end up with some guy that you don’t think is worth it.
The truth is what is clearly stated here, a man is never ugly. I first came across this term or statement in my early days in the secondary school while reading J.P Clark’s ‘The Wives Revolt’, where the women got tired of their duties and how they were being treated by their husbands, and they revolted, abandoning all their duties and leaving their homes. At the end, the ladies came back home to their husbands after clearly proving their points. Have you ever wondered why there are women that are happy bearing children, for men that they are not even married to? Have you ever thought of why there are many other ladies for men to cheat on their spouses with? Why are there more women looking for men to get married to than vice versa? Have you thought about it?
Any man can wake up tomorrow and search for a lady he wants to spend the rest his life with. The real truth is, even if he is turned down by a hundred women, he will still find one woman that will love and appreciate him like that! Accept it, it’s the truth! Whether tall, short, dwarf, light, burnt, black, a man is just never ugly. Women get so gullible when it comes to men and it’s solely for that reason. I don’t believe that any man should go around, holding his head down in shame because he isn’t a woman’s preference. The woman has sent him away as her own choice, she could stay and be part of the figures of women waiting, or she could as well find a better man. Either ways, men don’t lose, even mad men have wives!
Another major factor is, a man never really grows old, or his age is a limiting factor. By the time a woman is say 40, you start hearing comments like “She’s really old, she’ll be as old as my mum.” Who can blame the lady, whose body system has had to go through the rigours of having babies and having to raise them. That particular process, a man’s body never goes through. So a man is just as fresh as ever. Even an 80 year old man will still get married to a young woman and will have children. Then when the ladies reach a certain age, they can’t bear kids again, and that is the menopause stage. Meanwhile men can still go on, having kids with much younger women.
Now that the men know that they are valuable and would always be sought out, should they now go around shoulder high, chest and pot belly out? Of course, they should. But then, they must quickly see what could hinder them being recognized as the men they truly are. There is that line that when they cross, they’ll get disrespected and looked down upon even by the ladies that sought them. I can also call it ‘A Man’s True Beauty’, that beauty is RESPONSIBILITY. My oh my! Have you seen or come across a lazy man before? That all he wants to do is be served and do nothing? You know the word for them right? Disgusting. A man is synonymous with strength, ability, power, knowledge and might. Men are naturally looked up to for leadership, naturally chosen over the women, it’s how we were made and trained.
A man will start decaying, will get overlooked, will be passed by, abused, neglected and will become obsolete the moment he stops being responsible. Oh come on, keep your ‘good looks’ or your ‘height’ in the bag. An unserious man gets no respect from anyone, not even his fellow men and peers. If he is not laughed at in his home, he is laughed at in the public square! Men, listen to this, nothing catches a woman’s fancy like a responsible, proactive, hardworking man with results. They may never admit it to you in their life time, but they are totally addicted to it. You complain about your height a lot or your looks, you feel it’s because you are too short, or your nose is too big, look around you, there are men shorter than you that have the tall and beautiful ladies with them, how do you think they did it? They did something that affected the woman’s mind beyond their physical appearance. They were responsible! So stop weeping Mr man, and get your back to work.
Your abs, biceps, curly hair or nice smile will get you no where in this life. It may get you close to a lady, but it will get you just close enough for her to see the true you and run away. Women are no longer sitting back, they are up and doing. Do the most with the little you have and watch how it bears fruits. Even a little seed planted, doesn’t give you back a seed during harvest. Stop getting pissed at how other men get what you don’t have, focus on your life, and make something out of it. That’s the true beauty that people look forward to seeing in men, even the women as well. Save your present, save your future: by being responsible! That’s what keeps a man from never being ugly!
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